Coming and Going: Every birth is different Every death hits differently The process The arriving or Departing Is a fact and The fact that we are here alive Is proof of the fact that We arrived The departing is different A life well lived and long A life never lived beyond the womb Ended by sleep Ended in an accident Ended by one another Ended by own hand Ended by illness, virus, disease, heart. And after Those of us who have arrived and not yet departed Watch as people leave We see the ways of their going And think of my own going Of the departure of The ones I hold dear And I wonder how I will survive And if those losses will mark the Beginning of my own Departure.